Category: Insights

We love to believe we’re steering our own lives, but most of the time, we’re not leading, we’re looping. Repeating what’s familiar, calling it stability, pretending it’s choice.The truth is, what you’re not changing, you’re still choosing. There’s this idea I keep coming back to lately, that not deciding is a decision.We love to think we’re leading…

We’re taught that the more prepared we are, the better we’ll perform. Yet for many of us, over-preparation becomes a hidden trap: we cling to our plan so tightly that we disconnect from what’s actually happening in front of us. In this post, I share how one coaching call exposed my own blind spot around…